filipino cupid filipino heart: American scammed

by Bruce Brown | 25 Comments

American Scammed on Filipino cupid

I want to protect my real identity so that I can protect my personal life.I will tell you how I was scammed out of a lot of money from Filipino cupid.
I have been going through a divorce from my wife of 15 years. Tragically our relationship feel about due to communication issues. Because of this, I have been very lonely and seeking a new life partner.

I heard Filipina women were very good, faithful women so I decided to try I was shocked to find a FLOOD of scammers, con artists, sex shows, liars, and desperate single mothers begging for money on that site. 1 out of every 3 ladies I talked to here trying to get money from me.
That should have been my first warning. Of all these ladies, I found one that seemed different. She said her name was Ludivina. She was loving, caring and very beautiful. We started to talk to her and I was immediately amazed by her. She seemed very sweet and that is just what I was looking for after having a hard time in my dwindling relationship with my wife.

If she needed something, I would happily provide it. I make a good living and I actually enjoy helping others. I just have a problem about people being ungrateful, liars, and being selfish. So I never want to give money to scammers. Sometimes I would even give scammers a chance to tell me the truth and just give them money, usually they dont trust me so they keep lying, then I dont give them money.

After about 8 months, Ludivena told me she had not given me her real name, or real picture. She told me that she had done it all initially to get money, but now she wanted to get serious about me.

I was heart broken. She totally crushed me. I was totally in love. I was willing to share my whole life with her. I would have done ANYTHING for her. Now I dont trust her.

Despite all the scammers, I did meet a few life long friends. And I still believe there are great Filipinas there that would make the best wife.

25 Comments on filipino cupid filipino heart: American scammed

  1. Walle
    September 30, 2011 at 12:28 pm (8 years ago)

    No CAM = SCAM
    a picture alone isnt good enough

  2. Walle
    September 30, 2011 at 12:36 pm (8 years ago)

    You cold have taken the 3000 you gave her and traveled there to find a nice girl

  3. me1
    October 2, 2011 at 1:18 am (8 years ago)

    if a women ask money before they even meet in person, nah ah that's scam, but not all women in FC are that you need to really look for them,

  4. jenalyn
    October 4, 2011 at 8:59 pm (8 years ago)


  5. TnT
    October 13, 2011 at 9:38 am (8 years ago)

    How is it filipinocupid's fault? While they offer the service anyone who's not aware of scamming on these sites it's up to the customer to do due diligence. Google is free.

  6. robert gabriel
    October 19, 2011 at 8:19 pm (8 years ago)

    take the good from the bad ,,,, learn and moved on …

  7. Angeline tumale
    October 24, 2011 at 10:52 pm (8 years ago)

    Dont we find a right girl 4 u.that we love u so much

  8. Angeline tumale
    October 24, 2011 at 11:52 pm (8 years ago)

    Dont worry we find a right girl 4 u.that we love u so much

    • bryant5
      May 3, 2013 at 12:47 pm (6 years ago)

      🙂 i did, thank Angeline!!

  9. Paul
    March 22, 2012 at 12:59 pm (7 years ago)

    Hi you should choose a better site, did you try Christian Filipina site?

    • Mr. Dawkins
      May 3, 2013 at 12:42 pm (6 years ago)

      just because someone is religious, does not mean they are good.

  10. Anna
    April 21, 2012 at 11:39 am (7 years ago)

    God will help you to find the right woman for a right time she will be with you..dont be in a hurry and never send money to anyone that you dont know well..take care and God Bless

    • bryant5
      May 3, 2013 at 12:41 pm (6 years ago)

      thank you, I DID!!! 🙂

  11. Anna
    April 21, 2012 at 11:46 am (7 years ago)

    if she ask you forgiveness just give it to her but dont trust her again bec.i know for the second time she will do that again.

    • bryant5
      May 3, 2013 at 12:40 pm (6 years ago)

      i did forgive her. we did not remain friends

  12. edelyn tayactac
    June 19, 2012 at 8:32 am (7 years ago)

    filipina are thebest lover at all need only honest and positive…

    • beefy
      May 3, 2013 at 12:38 pm (6 years ago)

      they fuck good too

  13. trueblue
    March 4, 2013 at 10:31 am (6 years ago)


    there is no true romance in dating site, why not find someone near your area.

    • bryant5
      May 3, 2013 at 12:37 pm (6 years ago)

      i found one on a dating site. It just takes time to recognize the right one

  14. celle
    May 1, 2013 at 11:51 pm (6 years ago)

    I am a Filipina too, and really go on a dating site to find my future husband too. Ive been also in a separation, but Gosh I never do anything to hurt the people. I do also a victim of scam once, but never gave a second chance to those who would like to do again with me.

    Not all Filipinas are like Ludivina, there ARE lots who are genuine and true.

    • bryant5
      May 3, 2013 at 12:36 pm (6 years ago)

      yes, celle there are some on there that are good like you.

  15. kissy
    May 3, 2013 at 12:00 pm (6 years ago)

    1. Always ask for a cam in talking to a stranger so you will have the idea of how they look like. Also , some do photoshop editing their pictures to appear beautiful then ul be shocked to see they look different on cam.

    2. Goodluck, hope u can find a good filipina wife in the future.,

  16. bryant5
    May 3, 2013 at 12:34 pm (6 years ago)

    kissy, Its not right what she did. but the situation of a single phil woman is made worse by the environment since there is no support from the government, no law to force a man fathering a baby to take responsibility and a religious group that discourages planned parenthood. this does not excuse scamming but maybe it helps to understand why they do it.

    • Gud guy
      June 15, 2014 at 12:19 pm (5 years ago)

      You said a religious group that discourages Planned Parenthood?

      I know you mean contraceptives…

      But what about that religious group teaching that woman should stay a virgin until marriage?

      they frown against birth-control,, but totally allow young Filipino woman to have babies one after the other after the other!

      You mean to tell me they feel guilty about taking a contraceptive?

      But they have no problem opening their legs without marriage?

      That’s the problem

  17. Single Filipina
    June 12, 2013 at 9:36 pm (6 years ago)

    Sorry To hear about that! But I do believe too that there are great Filipinas out there that would make the best wife for you. You've just never found her yet. But someday somehow you would. Just Don't stop Believing That There is such a woman prepared for you!


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